Here's what I remember:
- It's a romance.
- It's a series of at least three books but more, I think.
- The main character in one of them was a woman abducted by an alien at a sci-fi convention.
- The guy is from a species that can shift into some kind of cat.
- He's totally obsessed with braiding her hair. All the guys in the series are.
- I read this in the Nineties - but I'm pretty sure I got it second hand then.
Okay... so... is this book real or did I imagine it? I've been looking for ages, without any luck.